Check availability
Set some time aside to check all of the key people’s availability on a selection of preferred dates.  Although most churches will be happy to welcome a christening into their service, sometimes they may not be able to accommodate specific dates or requirements.

Face to face meeting
Consider meeting your vicar in church rather than trying to sort everything out over the phone. It’s a courtesy that will be appreciated and will help you to feel at ease if you know the layout of the church and the nature of the service.

Use the help available
Make the most of the preparation offered by your church – many of which offer it in your own home.

Get Godparents up to speed
Keep the godparents informed and run through their responsibilities so they’ll feel comfortable with their duties on the big day.

Ask about photography
To avoid causing offence, check the church policy on stills photography and video filming. Most vicars are happy to pose for family photographs after the service. Some are prepared for video footage to be shot during the ceremony.

Involve the whole family
A christening is an important day for the whole family and it’s helpful to ensure that youngsters – such as an older brother or sister – are involved, so they don’t feel left out and are less likely to become distracted and misbehave.

Plan ahead
Practicalities may get overlooked in all the excitement. It may be helpful to adjust feeding or changing times slightly. A comfortable and contented baby is more likely to take the ceremony in his or her stride. Well, that’s the theory! 

Don't wind up the little one
It’s best not to pass the little VIP around  – at least not until you’re out of church.  Keep the baby cradled in familiar arms and there’s less likelihood of him or her becoming unsettled.

Donate generously
Although there is no fixed fee for christenings, remember that the church depends financially on those who use it.

Choose nice outfits
You’ll want your little one (and yourself) to look good on the big day. Choose stylish outfits with practical features for baby, so he or she will look and feel their best on this special, once-in-a-lifetime occasion.

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